:: Changi oh Changi ::

It was almost 11.45pm last night when my family and I went out. Fetch bibik and her daughters, ika and yana at Ang Mo Kio before we proceed to Changi Village. The shops was almost close so we only manage to get 4 pkts of Bee hoon goreng, 50 sticks of mutton satay and tea. Then off we go to Changi Beach.

The moment we arrive, we secured a nice cosy spot just beside the playground. Everybody start to tuck it. The food was gone in a jiffy. Look at how busy everybody is. My mom with her satay. Kalau pakai susok.. jatoh susok makan macam tu.. kwang kwang kwang..

I had so much fun with the swing.. Well.. It'e been donkey years since i actually sat on a swing.. wah shiok but i was feeling giddy with butterflies merrily flying in my stomach... Ira my fat lil sis.. didn't know how to play with the swing. She is the generation that suffered from the playground revamp. The swings is definitely a viatl part since it gives you this carefree feeling. Now the playgrounds comes in those plastic rickety slides and tiled sponged floorings. No more sand that gives you cuts and bruises when you fall. Gosh kids nowadays definitely miss out on all that...

Even my bibik wouldn't wanna miss on the fun. In short, we let out the kids in us...

See Ira, always wanna be part of photos.. SHe was super duper happy yesterday.. Macam monyet lepas kandang...

We then drove to the other end of the beach. Some of us, or should i say, all of us needs to use the toilet. Our bladder full from the eating and prancing around. We walk to another cosy spot. This time the place we sat was super windy. Didn't miss the chance to start snapping.. Looks like my phone camera was very useful.. The pictures are not too bad..

At about 3.30am, we left for home. Send bibik and family home and then we head home. it was definitely enjoyable and i think we should consider doing it often. Today i will be going to work at night. It will be till tomorrow morning. There's abg amrun so wont be so boring. Ayie will send me today.. He was telling me he misses me and is looking forward to see me later.. Kekekek..

Okie thats about it.. Nothing much to share eventho the weekend is a super long one. I shall continue chatting with Kak Lina. My cuzzin in Japan.. Adioz..

:: Happy Birthday DJ Bean ::

First and foremost, a very happy birthday to Bean.. You've turn 28 today. Moga hidupmu di penuhi dengan berkat dan rezeki. Insyallah..May Allah bless you in whatever you do in life and most importantly, enjoy the presence of all your loved ones around you. I hope you will be happy with the gift that su gave you. Must always be contented in life eh...

Went over to SGH yesterday to visit Wati. Nurool Qais Bin Noranzor was born into this world on the 24th January 2006. I was kinda sad when i saw her becasue she have to go through all this without the presence and support of her beloved husband, arwah Noranzor. Alhamdullilah she was very strong. The baby was born premature and he only weigh 1.6kg. He needs to be at least 2kg before he will be discharged. So only wati go home yesterday.

Ayie and me went to Spize for our dinner. As usual, darling menggigil.. Hahah... Always say that when he is superbly hungry.. Nasi Goreng Daging Merah for him and Nasi goreng seafood for me. We also had tom yam that left darling scrathing his head. His intolerance for spicy food. Haha.. It was nice but a tad too sweet for Tom Yam. Went for bowling soon after. Al Pacino and Senorita this time was our name. We bowled pretty badly but we had fun...

Ayie said i look very good yesterday.. Beautiful.. Muakakka... I felt like laughing but it was flattering.. I was wearing my gold top that we bought some time last month accompanied by the new shoes that was bought last wednesday.. I really like my shoes.. Love it..

To all my Chinese Frens.. Wishing you guys a prosperous new year...

:: Road Trip ::

Wow.. My weekend turn out great. I tot it's gonna be a boring one since i had to work on sat from 9am to 9pm. Then after that went for a meeting wif Ayie's frens. They were planning for a trip this year. A short one followed by a long one. I wasn't paying attention tho since i was busy eating my delicious plate of hor fun with egg. And i would not be joining them too. I am financially tight with school fees, savings for wedding and also they might be going to mersing which i can't go. I also do not want to trouble ppl with the car thingy since i can't go by bike.. So darling can just go. I'll just stay at home.

Went to JB on sunday to check out Bean's helmet. He is interested to buy one for his trip to cherating with Ayie. We were suppose to be back a.s.a.p since Ayie is working night. But a twist of events. Ayie took urgent leave. Muakaka i am so satisfied coz i finally manage to convince my workaholic bf to take a break. Bean and Ayie then decide to go for a ride. Bean, me and Su in slippers travelled 90km to Air Hitam to walk a bit and eat and travelled 90km back to JB. Gosh!! We brave the sun and rain since the weather was so unpredictable.

Ayie didn't want to waste his leave and decide we should make full use of it. We went bowling at Daiman. Ayie and me Kick Su and Bean off their throne..Muahahaha (Evil Laughter). See guys, you shouldnt let that group of lau fu zhi distract you.. Ayie said i improve.. yahoo.. It was fun tho with all the laughing and teasing..

Check out our scores. Kassim Ali Baba And Marjinna.. Apa jer si AYie nie kasi nama..

Next pit stop was Mama Chop Papa Grill. Went earlier at 4pm and it was closed. So we came back again. Bean ordered this rose syrup that comes in a huge mug. My oh My...

See Ayie posing with the giant mug.. Huge ain't it... I lioke..

Aww so sweet.. Not the two of you.. the drink i mean.. Muakakaka

So in total we actually travelled 200km. It was really fun. A sunday that is well spent. Won't be able to update much once school reopens next week. Back to books and lectures and tutorials..

Lastly a big congratulations to Wakif and Maiza on the birth of their baby boy. To Wati (arwah's widow) also on the birth of a baby boy. So many ppl expecting baby boys.. I wish the moms and babies good health and insyallah anak anaknya akan menjadik seorang anak yang soleh. To wakif, make sure you help maiza eh.. I'll drop by to see the babies soo yah..

So that's all folks.. This is actually the second time i did this entry.. Something went wrong just now and the whole entry just go kapoot...

:: Poootttt ::

Morning Morning... How's everybody today... Its' bright and airy this morning.. Reach office at about 10am. Darling send me to work. Some sort of making up since he did not spend time wif me. I was off yesterday but he had dinner wif his team mates. He was out till 3am.

We had breakfast at MacDonald. Just decide to give him a treat since he took the trouble to send me to work. He didn't sleep last night and stayed up to solat suboh.. I donno wat's wrong wif ayie nowadays.. Just now he call me baby.. Come baby, eat some hasbrown.. i wanted to laugh coz it sounded funny. The other day we played bowling he said come on darlz.. Bean and su burst out laughing.. Perhaps i prefer the conventional 'yang' lah...My oh my, ayie can be a joker lah...

while walking to the bike, i can hear my stomach rumbling with wind.. Thinking that it would be a silent one i decide to fart, pooottt and then Ayie turn back and look at me.. Yang.. wat was that.. I cannot tahan oredi.. muakakkaka i laugh.. I farted and i was caught. Gosh it was embarrassing..

Now while farting away.. updating my blog and listening to music, i decide to laze the whole day.. No work for me today.. It's gonna be the weekend soon.. Duh..

:: Shit!! ::

Well i am really not sure why ayie always step on shit. First was on Su's bday and the second was last Tuesday. That is like once a month. What is the correlation between Ayie and Shit?? Wah i last use the word correlation for my psycho TMA.

I called him last tuesday on my way back from boat quay to inform that i just finish work. Upon hearing that i have to drive the van to the atm and then drive it back to station before i can take a cab home. he quickly said he will come and fetch me. He did not bring extra helmet so he had to go home get the helmet before fetching me. Still he arrive first. Went for supper before sending me home. It was almost two by the time we reach home. He step on the shit while parking his bike.. Kekkeke.. I laugh my hearts out when i heard bout it. Kesian my darling... Well, he is always nice tho to ensure that he come and fetch me everytime he can especially when i finish late. Even when he is tired..

Yesterday went to work half day since i finish late the night before.. And i went home at two yestreday. It was really fun, plus funny plus ironic plus pathetic. But we really enjoyed ourselves. Darling call me at about 4am. While i'm almost sleeping.. He always have this habit to call me after his roadblock.. I also donno why but takper lah.. In my grogginess, i at times can't figure out what he said.

No work today so i am going to find myself things to do.. So till then... Damn my entry is so boring..

:: Untitled ::

These two days have been very tiring.. We spend both days on double date. With who?? Need you still ask. Of coz Bean and Su. Started with the bike show yesterday at Marina South.. Yeah it was pretty boring.. Nothing much to see and though the accessories was quite cheap eventhough imited. Had lunch at Sakura.. Su and I wanted to buy this $3 stainless steel ring at taka jewellery that was nice but sold out. Good things get snapped up fast. After that we thought we will be off to Johor but alas the rain was much faster. Darling just park his bike at this hotel lobby... Luckily nobody chase us away. He was then so engrossed with this sign here. Haiz. Dear dear.. plain weird lah you

Once the sky cleared, we shoot off for Tuas. Not going by woodlands since there might be a jam. But when we almost reach tuas, the rain came again.. This time, fierce.. It hit my skin like a knife.. Painful ah.. Pit stop at SPC near Tuas. My dear was so sweet. He took out his raincoat and wore it for me the moment we got down the bike. Was stuck there for more than an hour. Bad weather but still in high spirits. Even take pictures.. I love this pic.. really show the happiness in us..

At JB we did the usual eating. Went to collect my Mom's name card. It was sweet. Ayie and me also stumble upon wedding invitation card. We found one that come in pastel pink and blue. Really like it so much. Might be considering that for our wedding.,. Insyallah.. Next the two boys went for a haircut at Raja.

See this two, they look like school boys getting a hair cut. Kekeke .. Ayie look so much better with short hair. I just love it when my bf have those really short and neat hair. Look so cute and boyish. I have a thing for boyish guys lah..


It was late by the time we finish so off back to singapore. first plan was to go karaoke but due to time constrain we played bowling. I played quite okie. Should have stick to that brown ball lah su kan...

Today my darling accompanied Bean to the bike shop. Su and me tag along. And Ayie changed his chain and sprocket. It was time ya but in 5 days he spent $510 on his bike. Gosh. Ayie went for a massage after that and boy you should have seen his face.. All cramped up. Wakif dad who is the tukang urut say insyallah his kaki can be cured.. We'll all be hoping for the best.. My mum cook for Ayie mutton curry today and he drop by my place to take it. Almost tanak balik watching tv at my place.. Dear dear...

Thanks dear for spending this two days with me. I really enjoy myself. You have been very sweet. To bean and Su, you guys are great company.. And to bal, my condolences to the passing of your grandad. My prayers are with him...

:: Did i just did that?? ::

Okie.. I did the unthinkable today.. I chatted with Ayie's ex over MSN.. Muakakka, how that happen?? Well it's a long story and i'm too lazy to type. Bal ask me where i get the balls to chat wit Ayie's ex. And talk in a nice way when it was suppose involve screaming and shouting. Well it does not have to be that way rite. Why shout when u can talk. Furthermore she didn't do me any wrong..

At the end of the conversation, she added me in her Frienster also. We shall see how things goes from here.. I am off to watch Football Hooligans now. Wanna sleep as fast as i can so that the sun will rise faster. Meeting darling and su and bean tomorrow for our routine outing. Will be dropping by Marina South for the bikeshow too.. Heard it sucks.. I shall find out myself..

:: Fab Four's Back ::

I was very happy yesterday.. Despite the fact that i did not get much sleep on thursday night. My day also started early since i was the duty officer on every Friday. But the tot of seeing this ppl here.. Just makes me look forward to it. I cleared all my paperwork that i did not even realise that time flies... Time to see my darlins...

Bump into Mazaliah and Marliana. Mazaliah lost some weight but she's still cute. Just like the ol Mazaliah back in skool minus the teeny weeny baby fats..We had dinner at Pizza Hut. I tried their Pep N SPice spagetthi that taste like salt. It was so salty and dry that i just stuff it into my mouth for the sake of eating... Something was wrong tho with me. I was feeling so agitated and restless that even my frens notice it. I still don't know the reason why..

We then proceed to Cold Storage to get some titbits. Ezzam wanted to develop some pix so stop at Kodak first. Sales asst not around and we end up taking pics..

At Cold Storage, we grab some baby carrots, cherry tomatoes, yogurts, chocolate sticks and corn crakers.. While looking for drinks, we saw this sticker at the chiller.. And we did this..

So which one would you like to try today.. Muakakak.. we are always doing crazy stuffs.. Iniatially the plan was to go to the Jetty, then changed to Sembawang Park and then Changi Airport before we finally settle for Yishun Dam.. The outcome of 4 fickle minded ppl...

It was a cool night at Yishun Dam, there were quite a lot of ppl. Remember the restlessness that haunt me earlier. It was gone when we reach Yishun Dam. Maybe i'm getting claustrophobic.We find a nice spot to settle down. I called Ayie to inform him that i'm at Yishun Dam since i was suppose to meet him once he knock off. But alas, he finish work oredi. I decide to cancel meeting him as i just arrive. I was kinda worried tho that he might be angry.. But he's not. He said he will just go to Jalan Kayu alone and i should just spend time with my frens since i've not met them for ages.. Woah...

We chatted and laughed and chatted and laugh till about 1.40am. Muakakak it was so fun. Reach home at about 2 and retire to bed at about 2.30. Ayie reach home at about 4am. Wah menjadik dier.. Tomolo will be another long day.. Meeting Su and Bean for our Johor trip.. Now want to kacau Ayie.. Maybe he might be interested to go for the bikeshow at Marina before. Try my luck..

:: The Art of Psycho-ing ::

Muakakaka... How have everybody been?? Hari raya haji was a simple affair. Just some baca doa and present giving. Cik Edah and Uncle Maksah celebrate their 25th wedding anniversary and Mode celebrated her 50th birthday.Congrats ya...

I was super happy yesterday because i manage to psycho hubby (eh bila masa lak aku kawin), let's change it, darling.. To allow me to buy this nice gold top that has got translucent long sleeves. My darling as you know, don't like me wearing, translucent, body hugging, cleavage baring, short and revealing clothes. So in short, he wants me to be decently dressed.. haiz... wat an achievement, the perfect winning formula which is the sad face. I was jubilant the moment he say, u go get that top before i change my mind. I was beaming the moment i turn my back off him.. Scheming and manipulating some of you might say.. But, can't help it lah..

Happy moments turn to bad ones. I and darling quarrel. About wat, i think it's best to keep it between us. I shall not divulge. I said pretty nasty things to him which actually upset him. But he being sweet still apologize for his mistake despite my not so nice comments. Sorry dear, to think of it, i kinda regret doing that to you.. Still you have got to improve on it okie..

I got to go now.. Not feeling well, my head is spinning... I am seeing stars.. Better rest..

:: Boobs or Butts ::

Woah.. I shall go Latino today... Okie for those who have been tuning to my blog, you must have notice that i change my song ever so frequently.. Can't help it lah.. sometimes just got inspired by the music that i'm listening to.. So i just change the song... I love ethnic songs... And this songs is just so sexy. Ayie is also into ethnic songs but he prefer those Arabic ones.. Looks like my darling is into Arabic chicks.. Hmm.. kinky.. can bellydancing all the night eh dear... Muakakaka

Anyway, i was watching Sound on Styles on Channel 5, when Shakira actually perform.. Okie the gorgeous Shakira, with her nice curls, tanned golden skin, sexy moves with those perky butt. But she is missing the boobs. It makes me wonder, whether it is coincidence that those born with delicious booty will most likely have very little boobs... And vice versa. shakira is kinda different since she is not getting a boob job that is so famous in the hollywood world or maybe she might be getting it soon. Just not now.. Whatever it is, i think we are most beautiful when we don't alter the way God has created us.

It's a cold Hari Raya Aidiladha today... Wishing all the muslims a happy aidiladha. To my darling ayie.. don forget to bring back the mutton tau... My mom dah pesan she wants some.. i'm sure he will come back smelling like one.. Uwek..

Now i am craving for mee kuah.. Thanks to Suriya who told me she ate that at tekka... Yang.. I nak mee kuah.. Please please...

:: Wet and Cold Weekend ::

Woah.. It's been raining so heavily. My whole house is dark and gloomy till we need to switch on the lights. No fans needed since it's quite chilly in here.. My head feel so cramped. It might be the result of me not not sleeping on friday night and sleeping from 1am to 1pm today...

friday was busy at work.. I was working hard, attending to the supervisees as i am the duty officer. Clear all my paperwork. There was so much to be done. After that, did a follow up of yesterday's ops. I was happy bout the ops since i did a good job there.. For dinner, went to my mom's place to cukai lauk. My parents were preparing for the wedding at Pandan Gardens. My colleague was super happy with all the food. And best of all it was free..

Couldn't sleep at Pandan Gardens eventhough my body was quite tired. My uncles and aunties were snoring away like some symphony ochestra in unison. There were so many cats and there was even this kitten who loves Papa so much, it just sat at my dad's lap..Ewwww..

Saturday was hectic.. I had to top up the food and instruct my cousins to do the job correctly. If you don ask them, they will just take their own sweet time doing it. I hate it when ppl do their job so slowly..Ayie was working night on Friday so he couldn't come. If not, I'm sure he would wanna come down. At about 5pm, the food are almost gone. Can you believe it.. The invitation was for about 1500 ppl but more than expected turn out. Even the extra food wasn't enough. And Mom's cooking was superb yesterday. A lot of ppl commented on the tasty food and the namecards were passed around. Wow , maybe more business for us. I just can't wait to collect the new nameacards. My uncle, cik kamis is like out PR officer. Haha.. He's the one who will give out the cards to those who wants it.

By the time we finish cleaning up and all, we only reach home at about 11pm. I pull my shoulder from carrying all those heavy stuff. but it's okie.. Suriya wanted to ask us out but by the time i reach home, it was pretty late. Sorry dear.. I know lah kiter dua nie penghibur hati u ngan bean.. But apa kan daya.. (She sms me that okie.. Not that i wanna puji myself...)

I just cant wait to meet Ayie today.. We are going out with the guys...For bowling . But i doubt we will be going ahead since it's still raining here. Tot of asking darling to go mustapha centre with me. I am in love with this cute little shoes. Hehe.. He said we will go get it.. Yahoo... Sometimes i feel so pampered by him..

Argh... I guess it's best that i go chit chat with him.. Anyway Jariah... Si ayie mmg.. Always wanna summon ppl. I told him, he summon ppl but when he get summons, he go to the MP to appeal. He laugh and said that these ppl ought to do the same when they get it... Okie time for a short nap now... Adioz...

:: Prayers for the Haj Pilgrims ::

Astagfirullah 'al azim, my heart sank when ayie tell me that a hotel collapse in Mecca. I was so worried for the safety of all the fellow muslims who are now doing their pilgrimage. Ayie called me again to inform me that his parents are most likely in Jeddah. Alhamdulillah.. I just msg Kak Midah and Encik to ask how both of them are doing. Alhamdulillah, both of them are fine too..

Ayie end up kene scold by me because he did not have the details of his parents accomodation and itinery. He assured me that he will do that the moment they call him. He said he is not sure since this is the first time his parents went somewhere so far for a long period of time. I am also pissed with his sister for not taking the initiative to arrange for someone to take care of her sons. At times i feel that she is not giving her sons the attention that they need. I told Ayie this and he said he will speak to his sis bout this..

To all the haj pilgrims. My prayers will always be for you...........

:: The Angst in Me ::

Wat's with the song.. well that is for all the angst in me. So many ppl pissing me off ever so frequently. Well not a really good way to start 2006. And my eyes are always itching.. My nose also itching Argh.. Wat is happening to me...

Ayie, Me, Su and Bean as usual went to JB yesterday. Went to Kampung Melayu to settle and confirm my mom's namecard thingy. We have this catering bisnes and the namecards are running low. Me being the filial daughter went to JB with the help of my loving bf, accompanied by our two gerek frens. I am gonna be shameless today in order to promote my mom's bisnes.

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Me and my new belt (Kekeke) at Daiman Bowl.

Let's put aside the angst and concentrate on the self declared bowling tournament between the two ever so loving couple...

VS

Wat was the scored like.


Round One

Round Two




So it was pretty obvious here that Su and Bean won round one while Ayie and me won round two. Kekeke Sorry dear.. I played very badly. My hand can't seem to throw straight...

Wat's important is that we are all happy.. On the way home, we even manage to rush a Ramly burger by the road side each.. Yummy

Today ayie's parents will be making their way to Mecca. To fulfil the 5th pillar of Islam which is to go for Haj (pilgrimage). Akan ku doakan semoga mereka diberkati dgn kesihatan untuk menunaikan ibadah mereka, diberi haji mabror. Moga mereka selamat pergi dan balik.. Kesian Ayie takder lah org nak masakkan dier.. But no worries, i'm sure my mom will be giving him food. He definitely won't go hungry...

I guess that would be about all. I ain't know what to write anymore..

:: GoodBye 2005!! WelCome 2006!! ::

2005 has left and 2006 has just begun.. There were so many things that happen to me... There were bad stuffs bad but there were more good stuff.. Like the saying goes good triumph over evil.. Let's take a look at the things that happen in my life and etched in my memory..

January

I receive my ERS. Withdraw all the money that total up to $1200 and use some for my school fees.

February

I started my first year in the now defunct SIM. They are known as UniSIM w.e.f 01.07.2005. I am taking BSc(Hons) in Psychology and Mathematics.

March

23.03.2005 - Yan and me broke up after almost 2 years being together. I guess it was about time.. Just waiting to happen.. Life has got to move on...

April

For the first time in my career, i receive one month performance bonus.. Fuyooh.. So much money...

02.04.05 - Su and Bean got hitched...

May

02.05.05 - Ayie asked me out on a date... Our first date

04.05.2005 - Our first pic together at HTNS bowling tournament @ Marina South Bowling Ctr.

22.05.2005 - Lihua, Andrew and I bluff Ezzam and Sinah that Lihua and Andrew is getting married. Lihua is pregnant. The pranks was so believable.. Sinah and Ezzam cried. They were really disappointed. Then after that.. We got F**ked... Kekkekk

June

11.12.2005 - Bob and Nora got hitched.

12.06.2005 - Deanz and Miss Jayz sanding.. Their solemnisation was on the 24.12.2004.

13.06.2005 - Ayie and Rose officially together. Yes!! we are a couple..

July

17.07.2005 - Nor got engage to Rudy Hafyz. They will tie the knot in 2007. I'm waiting gal...

19.07.2005 - Ayie gave me a birthday bash.. Movie, presents, dinner and birthday cake..Thanks honey... It was also the day he come over to my house for the meet the parents session. Let's just say it end superbly... *Wink*

20.07.2005 - Post birthday gift. A bouquet of 12 stalks of red roses delivered right to my office... I'm melting...

31.07.2005 - A surprise trip to the zoo that ends with a super dynamic terrible migraine. Nice gesture.. Bad weather.. Not a good combination ah...

Late July - Got to know this lovely couple up close and personal. Jariah and Deanz.. No regrets..

August

15.08.2005 - Left Sup F for Sup J. The time have come for me to pack my things there.. U ppl gerek...

September

24.09.2005 - Yen and Zam got hitched.

October

05.10.2005 - The start of the holy fasting month.

09.10.2005 - Our beloved friend and colleague Arwahyarham Noranzor Abdul Latiff passed away. Akan senantiasa ku sedekahkan alfatihah kepadamu.

November

24.11.2005 - Celebrated Ayie's 28th birthday with him. Made a chocolate strawberry cheesecake for him... You deserve it dear..

26.11.2005 - 28.11.2005 - Went to Fraser's Hill

28.11.2005 - 30.11.2005 - Trip to Port Dickson

December

24.12.2005 - Got to know Siti. Su's bestest buddy. Nice and simple gal.. U are just fabulous.

By the end of the year, i have my lovely fab four and my loved ones with me. Wat else can i ask for. So how did i end my year in 2005. By having a big fight with Ayie. When i say big, it was big... But biasalah rose.. marah macam maggis.. Skejap jerr dah cool down...

And for those who are interested on how i actually started my 2006. Well i wish Ayie happy new year. Sms Su and Nor happy new year. Watch TV in this big room all by myself. Sux big time rite.. Takperlah dapat pahala tolong kak midah ngan encik yang sedang menunaikan ibadah haji. This morning i was feeling generous so when shopping at NTUC and Cold Storage then i made a stupid mistake.. I took 969 instead of 903. Lucky i realise it after two bus stops.. End up taking a cab since i had so many things with me.

Resolution 2006

- Shed 10kg
- Save 11K
- Study harder
- To be a better person that is more tolerant towards others.

To everybody, I wish you a prosperous new year with many wonderful beginnings.. Love you all.. Muackz..

A preoccupation with the future not only prevents us from seeing the present as it is but often prompt us to rearrange the past.